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One Athlete, One Family, at a Time

The times and rankings matter, and they are here. But what changes first is the behavior: what a parent was watching before, and what they are watching now. Find the one that sounds like your athlete.

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In Their Own Words

These athletes and their families have given permission to share their name, their image and their story.

Alejandro Stoner

Alejandro Stoner

SwimmingAge 15–16

  • Leadership
  • Ownership
  • Confidence
  • Communication

Sat alone on the bleachers between events

Team captain, leading the group

Full of doubt he never said out loud

Confident, and catches himself when his head starts to slide

Closed off and carrying it all quietly

Self-driven: runs his own training

And on the scoreboard

  • Earned Team Captain
  • 48.77s dropped across 5 events
  • 14 PBs
“I used to sit alone. Now I lead. The mental game changed everything.”Alejandro
“He recognizes when he's sliding mentally — and he adjusts. That's a life skill most adults don't have.”Alejandro’s parent
Amelia Callahan

Amelia Callahan

SwimmingAge 13–14

  • Emotional stability
  • Confidence
  • Focus
  • Joy

Tight and anxious before every meet

Relaxed and happy to compete

Hard on herself, and alone on the deck

Happy and engaging, back with her teammates

Comparing herself to everyone in warm-up

Confident in her own race

And on the scoreboard

  • 18 PBs · 6 season bests
  • 400 IM −6.69s
  • First competitive 1650 Free
“I used to be so anxious before meets. Now I'm relaxed and just happy to compete.”Amelia
“She used to be tight, anxious, and hard on herself. Now she's relaxed, happy, and engaging. The changes go far beyond swim meets.”Amelia’s parent
Braden Meurer

Braden Meurer

SwimmingAge 13–14National level

  • Confidence
  • Resilience
  • Joy
  • Mental toughness

On the verge of quitting the sport

Loves it again: “Swimming used to be miserable. Now I love it”

Anxious, shut down and withdrawn

Outgoing and confident again

And on the scoreboard

  • Illinois State Champion
  • Futures cuts
  • 29.82s dropped across 5 events
  • 13 PBs
“Swimming used to be miserable. Now I love it.”Braden
“This program was our Hail Mary. The transformation is undeniable — not just in swim but in life.”Shannon M., Braden’s parent
Holly Alligood

Holly Alligood

SwimmingAge 12 & under

  • Self-belief
  • Ownership
  • Resilience
  • Preparation

Measuring herself against the girl in the next lane

Confident in her own goals, every meet

Turned on herself after every bad race

Resilient: shakes off a bad race and fixes it mid-meet

The joy draining out of a sport she loved

Confident and ready: “every time I walk into a meet now”

And on the scoreboard

  • 20.7s dropped in the 200 IM
  • 14 PBs in 90 days
“I feel confident and ready every time I walk into a meet now.”Holly
“She walks into meets with her goals dialed in. Confident, self-led, and beyond her years.”Holly’s parents
Ila Molettiere

Ila Molettiere

SwimmingAge 15–16

  • Leadership
  • Resilience
  • Confidence
  • Mental toughness

Mad all the time

Happy again: “I used to be mad all the time. And now I’m not mad all the time”

Frozen behind the blocks, trying to repeat a magic season

Confident: says yes to the relay that isn’t her event

Practice times that never showed up at a meet

Consistent: practice times showing up when it counts

And on the scoreboard

  • 9 months of freezing in competition → 4 PBs
  • Managed a 5-day prelims-and-finals meet
“I used to be mad all the time. And now I'm not mad all the time.”Ila
“Six months ago, it would have been 'I don't want to swim it. It's not my event. It's too much.' It went from that to 'yes, I'll swim it.' And it was simple as that. Ila is a different person now.”Bob M., Ila’s parent
Katie Vaughn

Katie Vaughn

Swimming

  • Emotional stability
  • Preparation
  • Resilience
  • Ownership

Dreaded every meet morning

Calm and ready on meet day

A wall up on competition day: don’t talk to me, don’t look at me

Relaxed and engaged with the people around her

One bad race ruined the whole weekend

Resilient: one rough race stays one rough race

And on the scoreboard

  • 1650 Free −14s
  • 1000 Free −23s
  • 500 Free −5s
“It's something that's definitely worth doing — but you have to want it. You can't expect it to be done for you. You've got to put in the work for it.”Katie
“It's probably life-changing for both of us.”Katie’s mom
Kellen Booth

Kellen Booth

SwimmingAge 17–18

  • Emotional stability
  • Preparation
  • Ownership
  • Confidence

A nervous wreck before every race: pacing, spiralling

Calm and confident behind the blocks

Expecting the worst before he ever got in the water

Race anxiety gone, in his words: “It cured my race anxiety”

Needed Dad to talk him down before he could race

Independent. His dad: “He’s become a man”

And on the scoreboard

  • Gettysburg College commit
  • 11 PBs
  • 11.92s dropped across 5 events
“It cured my race anxiety. I used to be a nervous wreck. Now I look at the pool calm and confident.”Kellen
“He's become a man. Watching him race, you can see he's building, not doubting.”Rick B., Kellen’s parent
Logan Kelly

Logan Kelly

SwimmingAge 17–18State & regional level

  • Mental toughness
  • Focus
  • Self-belief
  • Resilience
  • Ownership

Needed to be angry before he could race

Confident in any mood

Comparing himself to the next lane mid-race

Focused on his own race

Flattened by an eighth place and a disqualification

Resilient: came back a year later as state champion

And on the scoreboard

  • 8th place → Dual 6A State Champion
  • 2 Class 6A State Records
  • 50 Free −2.17s · 100 Free −3.03s
“Comparison won't get you to your goals. The dedication you put into it will.”Logan
“If you don't believe in yourself first, you're always looking to somebody else to validate you.”Kathy K., Logan’s parent
Marcos Gomez

Marcos Gomez

Tennis

  • Emotional stability
  • Focus
  • Ownership
  • Communication

So negative and hard on himself that tennis had stopped being fun

Positive on court, even on a day he isn’t playing his best

Frustration took over at every tournament

In control of his emotions, first point to last

Distracted by the next court, the referee, his parents

Locked in on his own match

And on the scoreboard

  • Moved up to hit with the higher-level group
  • Met the goal he set on day one: play free and enjoy competing
“I'm definitely more able to control my emotions on court. I can stay positive more of the time and not get so negative, even though I'm not playing my best.”Marcos
“I see the tennis that I want him to play, that he's capable of playing. I enjoyed watching him last weekend. We had a blast.”Javier G., Marcos’s dad
Mary Sloan Brown

Mary Sloan Brown

SwimmingAge 13–14State & regional level

  • Confidence
  • Joy
  • Emotional stability
  • Ownership

So afraid of failing that she stopped trying

Confident and brave: made a big decision on her own

A house walking on eggshells around her

A family at peace. Her parents: “We’re no longer playing counselor”

All the joy gone

Happy and enjoying it again

And on the scoreboard

  • 7 PBs · 19 season bests
“We're no longer playing counselor. She switched teams on her own — something we never thought she'd have the courage to do.”Mary Sloan’s parent
Rolland Mease

Rolland Mease

SwimmingAge 15–16

  • Communication
  • Focus
  • Emotional stability
  • Leadership

Bottled everything up and said nothing out loud

Open and communicating. His parents: “He’s leading, communicating, and standing up for others”

Pulled into other kids’ drama instead of his own race

Focused on his own race

Flustered on the blocks before the race had started

Calm and clear-headed: “actually ready to race now”

And on the scoreboard

  • 18+ PBs in 90 days
  • Breakout meet at Autumn Aspen
“I feel clear-minded and actually ready to race now — not flustered or distracted.”Rolland
“This wasn't just about swimming — it was about life. He's leading, communicating, and standing up for others.”Rolland’s parents
Sadira Ouyang

Sadira Ouyang

TennisAge 15–16

  • Adaptability
  • Emotional stability
  • Resilience
  • Focus

Turned on herself the moment shots started missing

Calm and composed, even when she’s losing

Once she fell behind, the match was over

Mentally tough: lost a set 0-6 and won the next

Hit first and thought later

Smart under pressure: “playing chess, not checkers”

And on the scoreboard

  • UTR 8.15 → 9.55
  • Lost the first set 0-6 → won the second
  • Now competing against 10+ UTR opponents
“Neutrality. You don't have to be positive. Just stay chill, stay calm. That's how you strategize and do what you need to do.”Sadira
“She's playing chess. She doesn't have checkers anymore. Her mind lives in the moment.”Sadira’s parent
Tyler Kominski

Tyler Kominski

SwimmingNational level

  • Resilience
  • Growth mindset
  • Ownership
  • Emotional stability
  • Focus

Negative and relentlessly hard on himself

Steady and self-assured, even in a crisis days before his championship meet

Comparing himself to everyone around him

Confident in his own race

Hit a plateau for the first time and had no idea what to do

Resilient: personal bests in all but two races afterwards

And on the scoreboard

  • Personal bests in all but two races
  • Turned down a Division I offer to bet on himself
“I feel like athletically and mentally I'm a different person than I was before. All these tactics I had zero idea about — zero idea.”Tyler
“With these young athletes we are so often just training their bodies, their bodies, their bodies. And nobody is training their mind. These kids can get into bad places with the pressure they put on themselves. Anything that can make my kid a happy, healthy kid for the rest of his life is worth any price you could possibly pay.”Elizabeth K., Tyler’s parent
Zoey Switzer

Zoey Switzer

SwimmingAge 15–16

  • Emotional stability
  • Joy
  • Ownership

Emotional breakdowns on the pool deck

Steady and composed at meets

Obsessing over everything

Relaxed: “Now I swim because I love it”

Swimming controlling the whole family’s life

A calmer home. Her parent: “Now she has tools. We have tools”

And on the scoreboard

  • 10 PBs · 11 season bests
  • 8.43s dropped across 5 events
“I used to obsess over everything. Now I swim because I love it.”Zoey
“Swimming controlled our life. Now she has tools. We have tools. We let her own her emotions.”Zoey’s parents
Alex Lazich

Alex Lazich

TennisAge 15–16

  • Focus
  • Resilience
  • Mental toughness
  • Emotional stability

One bad patch and he spiralled

Positive almost all the time: “When I get negative, I don’t stay there long”

So busy planning the point that he was never in it

Present and focused before every point

No way back once he fell behind

Mentally tough: comeback wins are now routine

And on the scoreboard

  • UTR 8.2 → 8.7 in 90 days
  • Now 9.07 and still climbing
“I'm winning a lot more matches. I'm neutral and positive almost all the time. When I get negative, I don't stay there long.”Alex
“It was the best thing we ever did for him mentally.”Ornella L., Alex’s parent
Caíque Cavalcanti

Caíque Cavalcanti

TennisAge 12 & underNational level

  • Emotional stability
  • Ownership
  • Self-belief
  • Resilience

One bad point and he would spiral

Steady when the match turns against him

Head down, shrinking at every error

Confident: “I’m a total different player on court”

Nervous and hesitant against players he should beat

Self-belief against anyone: state champion, and fourth in the nation

And on the scoreboard

  • State champion on day 21
  • 4th in the nation by mid-July
“I'm a total different player on court, I think way more different than before.”Caíque
“I don't worry about his technique, about strategy, because he's going to learn it. But the mental part is the most important. And I think you gave him tools to handle all these things. And not only for 90 days — it's for life. So it's an investment right now, but that investment will be paid for his whole life.”Caíque’s dad
Fynn Vaughan

Fynn Vaughan

TennisAge 17–18High school varsity

  • Resilience
  • Mental toughness
  • Emotional stability
  • Self-belief

A voice in his head so harsh his mom said it would terrify you

Quiets the negativity himself, in the middle of a match

Third mistake, and the whole match fell apart

Resilient: holds it together when the match goes wrong

Five years without a tournament medal

Came back from 5-1 down to win, and took gold

And on the scoreboard

  • 5-year medal drought → gold medal winner
  • District Champion
  • UTR 3.25 → 4.85
“No matter how gimmicky you think it is — when I started this, I thought it was kind of gimmicky. It actually does help a lot. If you actually do what they tell you to do, you're going to improve.”Fynn
“I knew those things. I could never get him to verbalize it. For him to finally put it in words — was significant for me.”Shelby V., Fynn’s mom

Mia Knezevic

TennisAge 13–14

  • Emotional stability
  • Resilience
  • Ownership
  • Mental toughness

The harshest critic of herself in her own family

Patient with herself: “making a mistake is a normal thing”

One mistake, and the anger took the rest of the match

Composed: frustrated for about five seconds, then on to the next point

The best player in practice, a different kid in competition

Calm under pressure: “Even after the seventh shot, I would still be calm”

And on the scoreboard

  • Match-long spirals → recovering in about 5 seconds
  • Played through 5–6 straight errors with full composure
“I've just been more patient with myself and understanding — that making a mistake is a normal thing. I can't be perfect. Even after the seventh shot, I would still be calm. I'd be like, okay, it's all right. I still got it.”Mia
“There is a general maturity segment in it that's really obvious. That's my main thing — in life, not just tennis-wise. It came at the right time, with her traveling and being more on her own — set up for the next chapter.”Marija T., Mia’s mom

Natalia Lupu

Swimming

  • Focus
  • Growth mindset
  • Ownership
  • Self-belief

Negative self-talk after every swim

Positive again. Her parent: “She’s not spiralling in negativity anymore”

Comparing herself to everyone, her worth riding on the clock

Confident in her own progress

Shut down whenever it didn’t go her way

Self-motivated: sets her own alarm, books her own tutoring

And on the scoreboard

  • 12.5s dropped across 5 events
  • 3 PBs
“I thought nothing could help. Now I know every day is a new start.”Natalia
“Best investment I've made in a long time. She's not spiraling in negativity anymore.”Natalia’s parent

Sterling Burd

SwimmingAge CollegeCollegiate

  • Communication
  • Ownership
  • Emotional stability
  • Self-belief

In her own head constantly, and sick of it

Clear-headed, with a language for where her head is

A small, quiet person who would never speak up

Confident: called the meeting with her coach herself

Frightened texts to her mother before every big race

Calm before the biggest race of her career: not one scared text

And on the scoreboard

  • 2 new personal bests
“Coming into it I was like — what are we doing? This is dumb, I don't need it. I've seen myself completely change from a small, quiet little person to, when they need to, I'll open up my mouth and say something. I would never, ever, ever do that.”Sterling
“I love the realness, the rawness. He is not going to sit there and tell you, oh Sterling, you're really great, you're the best, don't worry about what anyone else says. In today's world, if you're not glazed as an athlete, these kids are like — what am I?”Mechelle B., Sterling’s parent

Addie Troskie

Tennis

  • Communication
  • Focus
  • Resilience
  • Self-belief

Convinced her dad thought she was horrible

Confident: “Now I’m able to focus on myself”

Dreaded matches before she walked on court

Mentally tough: came from 3-0 down to win the set

Looked at her father after every point

Found her voice: tells her dad what she needs

And on the scoreboard

  • Down 3-0 → won the set 6-3
  • Runner-up, with four match points for the title
  • Team captain at twelve
“I would always look at my dad and think, what is he thinking about me? He thinks I'm horrible. He pays all this money for me to do this and I go out and play like this. Now I'm able to focus on myself.”Addie
“She's found her voice to communicate what she needs. There was a tournament where she told me and Asher to sit inside so she could play — we were peeking through the window asking what the score was. She would never have been able to say that before.”George T., Addie’s parent

Alex Gonzalez

SwimmingNational level

  • Focus
  • Communication
  • Resilience
  • Self-belief

Overthinking, tuned out, never really in the race

Present: “Now it flows, it comes naturally”

Harmful self-talk that derailed him after a bad swim

Resilient: flips the switch mid-meet after a bad swim

So guarded his parents had to squeeze information out of him

Open with his family. His dad: “it helped him open up”

And on the scoreboard

  • Multiple Futures cuts
  • 13 lifetime PBs in 5 months
  • 400 IM −9.56s
“I was overthinking, I was tuned out, I wasn't living in the moment. Now it flows, it comes naturally — it's become second nature.”Alex
“It was worth every minute, every penny — because it helped him open up. And when you share, things start opening and reciprocating.”Alex’s dad

Asher Troskie

Tennis

  • Confidence
  • Focus
  • Motivation
  • Self-belief

Played not to lose from the second game on

Confident: “I ended up winning. Because I played my game”

Avoided his own big shots in case he missed

Brave: goes for his big shots

Got angry and kept making the same mistakes

Positive, even in a loss. His dad: “his attitude was wonderful”

And on the scoreboard

  • First-ever win over a higher-ranked opponent
  • Beat the player whose win over him started it all
“His UTR was really good — but I ended up winning. Because I played my game.”Asher
“Even in losing, his attitude was wonderful. It's not something I've experienced from him, and it's been cool to see. He said to me that he now wants to play more tennis.”George T., Asher’s parent

Austin Berg

TennisAge 17–18

  • Emotional stability
  • Resilience
  • Preparation
  • Self-belief

Angry on court every session, practice included

Calm: the anger is gone

A week to get over any loss

Resilient: over a loss inside twelve hours

His self-worth tied to his rating

Self-assured: gets himself ready before every match

And on the scoreboard

  • UTR 7.38 → 7.75
  • Recovery after a loss: a week → under 12 hours
“This is probably the best thing I've put any sort of money into — ever. It's been transformational for my whole life.”Austin
“His recovery rate is quicker, faster — time to recovery, much, much better.”Steve B., Austin’s dad

Bryson Beck

SwimmingHigh school

  • Mental toughness
  • Confidence
  • Resilience

Quit mid-set the moment it started to hurt

Mentally tough: “I’m actually still going” when it gets hard

Ability his confidence never caught up to

Confidence that matches his ability

So much pressure on himself that his times went backwards

Back to his best, and winning

And on the scoreboard

  • Won the 200 Free
  • 200 Free −4.88s
  • 5 PBs
“Instead of giving up during the set — just after I get tired and fatigued — I'm actually still going instead of just listening to it and then just dying.”Bryson
“He puts so much pressure on himself to perform in school, to perform in the pool. When things are going right, everything tends to go right.”Bryson’s parent

Caroline Quinn

SwimmingAge 13–14National level

  • Focus
  • Self-belief
  • Emotional stability

A negative mindset shadowing the week before every meet

Positive: “I didn’t really find myself going into that [negative] mindset really at all at this meet”

Watching the lane next to her instead of her own

Focused on her own race, all week at a national meet

Never counted herself a real competitor

Confident: relaxed where she used to be tight

And on the scoreboard

  • Time drops in 4 of 5 events at a national meet
  • First sub-1:00 100 Free
  • 50 Back −2.0s · 100 Back −1.5s
“I didn't really find myself going into that [negative] mindset really at all at this meet, which I'm really proud of.”Caroline

Ella McGonigal

SwimmingAge 15–16State & regional level

  • Emotional stability
  • Mental toughness
  • Communication
  • Ownership

Coming apart on the blocks before the start

Composed on the blocks

Lost her love for the water

Confident: “I have the mental tools to face the challenge”

A family wondering whether she could keep swimming

Her mom: “She’s our daughter again”

And on the scoreboard

  • 7 lifetime PBs in one meet at State Championships
  • 200 IM 2:08.76 → 2:06.13
“I have the mental tools to face the challenge and work through it, even if it is hard — or get to a point where facing the challenge that would have been really hard before is easy for me now.”Ella
“If I could go back three months and know where we'd end up, I would do it again in a heartbeat. I would have paid it tenfold. She's our daughter again.”April M., Ella’s mom

Lexi Olson

SwimmingAge 15–16State & regional level

  • Ownership
  • Motivation
  • Resilience
  • Communication

Wanted to quit the sport entirely

Loves the work again

Anxious before every practice and every meet

Calm. Her mom: “She totally managed her anxiety”

Parents coaching before every race and texting after it

Independent: “Now I can just reflect on my own”

And on the scoreboard

  • Ready to quit → coaching herself in 4 months
  • Handled a regionals day-two recovery on her own
“Normally they're always texting me about what I should have done better. Now I can just reflect on my own.”Lexi
“The next morning, she was talking about things I know she learned during this. She totally managed her anxiety. She even said, 'I didn't do very good the first day because I didn't do these things.'”Sharon O., Lexi’s mom

Madelyn Lefholz

TennisAge 12 & underState & regional level

  • Mental toughness
  • Growth mindset
  • Emotional stability
  • Ownership

Playing not to lose, fear driving the boat

Composed under pressure. Her dad: “Win or lose, she was the same”

Perfect, or the practice didn’t count

Positive: lets an imperfect ball go

Frustration came home from practice with her

Happy when she leaves practice

And on the scoreboard

  • UTR 2.30 → 2.75 after a flat spring
  • Most composed player in her draw
“I honestly feel like everything in my head's changed. It's like I finally figured out how to turn on the light in the darkest situations. I feel like I've found a whole new part of myself that I never knew existed.”Madelyn
“It was pretty amazing to watch the 10-year-old — the youngest kid out there by far — be the most resilient. Win or lose, she was the same. The other kids were in mental distress and she was just as calm as could be in all of it.”Dustin L., Madelyn’s dad

Marcelina Harp

TennisAge 12 & underState & regional level

  • Emotional stability
  • Resilience
  • Confidence
  • Mental toughness

Got really mad at herself for the tiniest things

Positive: “Now I would just shake it off — time for the next point”

Crying over a net cord on a deuce point

Composed: resets inside a single point

Looked up opponents’ ratings and shrank against the number

Confident: attacks when she feels the pressure

And on the scoreboard

  • Crying over net cords → beating 7.13 UTR opponents
  • UTR 5.25 → 6.5 and still climbing
“I would cry a lot. I would get really mad at myself for the tiniest things. Now I would just shake it off — time for the next point.”Marcelina
“It's not the same girl. She changed mentally a lot. It's not the same girl three months ago.”Elvia H., Marcelina’s parent

Mia Hickey

SwimmingAge 13–14State & regional level

  • Resilience
  • Ownership
  • Emotional stability
  • Focus

One bad race ruined the whole meet

Resilient: one bad race stays one bad race

Negative doom loops her parents couldn’t break through

Positive again, and she got there herself

And on the scoreboard

  • JO cut
  • 25 PBs in 90 days
  • 17.90s dropped
“The skills I've learned, they help me not just with swimming — I can use them for the rest of my life.”Mia
“There wasn't a way we could get through to her. Something happened in these months for her to finally accept that it's okay.”Mia’s parents

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  • Confidence
  • Self-belief
  • Joy
  • Mental toughness

Froze and held back all game

Confident and brave on the ball

Teammates had stopped looking for her

Trusted by her teammates again

Ready to quit altogether

Happy again. A parent: “This program gave my daughter her joy back”

“You're competing with yourself in your mind — it's always about you, and that's affected by your mind.”The athlete
“It's like watching a part of them die. This program gave my daughter her joy back.”A parent

SwimmingNational level

A week of doom and dread before every meet

Calm in the days before a meet

Talked herself out of it before she stepped up

Confident stepping up to race

Brought her harshest practice critic onto the blocks

Free to race: “Today I actually didn’t even care about my times”

“Today I actually didn't even care about my times. I was just focused on getting through it. And I did.”The athlete

State & regional level

  • Motivation
  • Self-belief
  • Communication

Motivation that came and went with the conditions

Driven: said he was tired of coming second, and went and did the work

Tried to compete like the other kids instead of like himself

Confident competing as himself

Age 13–14National level

  • Self-belief
  • Adaptability
  • Resilience

Second-guessed himself the moment he saw someone he looked up to

Self-belief: trusts his own read against anyone

One bad result felt like a catastrophe

Resilient: came from behind to win it at the end

So locked to the plan he couldn’t adapt

Adaptable: adjusts on instinct in the middle of competition

SwimmingAge 15–16

  • Self-belief
  • Ownership
  • Preparation
  • Motivation

Could never say out loud that she was good at this

Self-belief: said it out loud, and meant it

Held herself back so there was always an excuse

All in: warms up properly and leaves herself no excuses

No joy in the hard practices

Dedicated: set up her own accountability so she never misses one

“I was doubtful of you, Nate — I'm gonna be so honest. I was like, sure, dude. But it did work. Like so well, which is crazy to me.”The athlete

SwimmingAge 17–18National level

  • Ownership
  • Self-belief
  • Communication

Faster in practice every year, never faster at meets

Thriving: back in the top training group

Faking a positivity he didn’t feel, and exhausted by it

Genuine: “It’s just like a new mindset”

Exhausted and telling nobody

Speaks up: chose the event he wanted, not the one he was talked into

SwimmingAge 17–18State & regional level

  • Self-belief
  • Confidence
  • Mental toughness

A ceiling she could feel but never get past

Confident: walks into the big one expecting to win

Overwhelmed walking into her senior year

Steady. A parent: “This wasn’t just swim training. It was life training”

“It's hard and it takes work. But you'll be so glad you did it — for yourself.”The athlete
“This wasn't just swim training. It was life training.”A parent

SwimmingAge CollegeCollegiate

  • Self-belief
  • Coachability
  • Leadership
  • Growth mindset

Psyched himself out before he reached the block

Self-belief: “Now I believe in myself more than ever before”

Practice times that never showed up in a race

Consistent: races the way he trains

Told his coach the whole thing was stupid

A leader on his team

“Before Mental Grit, before I'd even get up on the block, I'd thrown myself out of the entire race. Now I believe in myself more than ever before.”The athlete

SwimmingAge 13–14

  • Resilience
  • Emotional stability
  • Growth mindset

One bad race early, and the rest of the meet went with it

Resilient: a bad race no longer snowballs

Tears after a bad practice

Kind to herself: “I’m allowed to have a bad practice”

Enormous pressure nobody else asked for

Happier and more even-keeled

SwimmingAge 15–16

  • Self-belief
  • Resilience
  • Ownership
  • Focus

Compared every swim to everybody else’s

Confident in her own race

Needed someone else to tell her it was good

Self-belief: backs herself

Couldn’t bounce back from a setback

Resilient: “Now I bring it every time, no matter the stage”

“I used to minimize the smaller meets. Now I bring it every time, no matter the stage.”The athlete
“She had the physical grit. Mental Grit gave her the mental tools to back it up.”A parent

Age 15–16National level

  • Emotional stability
  • Focus
  • Ownership
  • Preparation

Sick with nerves on the start line

Calm and composed on the start line

Sizing up everyone else before he’d even started

Confident: “I stopped focusing on everybody else”

Anger after every race that followed him home

Level-headed: looks for the fix, not someone to blame

“I've grown in my confidence. I stopped focusing on everybody else and started focusing on what I can control.”The athlete

SwimmingAge 17–18High school varsity

  • Resilience
  • Growth mindset
  • Focus
  • Mental toughness

So afraid to fail that he played it safe

Brave: races through adversity instead of around it

Nothing he did was ever good enough for him

Fair with himself: judges his own races honestly

Tensed up before every race without knowing it

Calm: “You’re focusing on the present moment instead of worrying about something in the future”

“It also doesn't stress you out as much. You're focusing on the present moment instead of worrying about something in the future.”The athlete

If You Recognized Your Athlete in the “Before”

That recognition is the whole point of this page. See how the ninety days work and what the first conversation looks like.